heyy and welcome! I understand the lurking thing. I was a lurker for a good couple of months before i started posting.

Be yourself. 'Cause if you're busy being somebody else, who's gonna be you?

hai dere

welcome to oasis, glad you finaly admitted your sexuality. :). I lurked for about 3 hours then joined and posted/read for another 3 hours, i was so relieved to finaly not feel alone.

"gay: cheerful and lighthearted; merry." - The American Heritage Dictionary.