I don't have anything like a gaydar (and i think that it's just one of those myths), but the really important thig is that you don't need one to find someone. I know it's hard, but thats the way it is.

(why is EVERYTHING i write so pessimistic?)

Mine is def. not working.. Because i have NO sense of who's gay i just assume everyone is straight so no matter what im S.O.L. unless someone starts the flirting and tells me they are gay haha.. I know exactly what you mean.

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~*ThOuGh ThE sPaRkLe Is GoNe, ThE sMiLe Is In PlAcE sO tHaT eVeRyOnE wAtChInG cAn SeE*~

uh me i so do my gaydar is so out of wack it ant even funny its more a straightdar
~steph

Yeah my gaydar definetly sucks.

Some women can't say the word lesbian... even when their mouth is full of one.
Kate Clinton

but theres still a few unsolved mysteries mhuhahaha

I'd never lie to you
Unless I had to, I'll do what I got to
The truth...is you could slit my throat
And with my one last gasping breath
I'd apologize for bleeding on your shirt - Tbs

Unless the prey is obviously swish for a male or extremely butch for a girl there are no distinctions between gays and straights. That's the good news. The bad news is that finding someone of similar sexual orientation is difficult unless both of you frequent places where the majority of the clientèle are of the same persuasion.

ele

I have only had my gay-dar work, like twice

I can't tell. I never take the time to find out if it works. But from what I have found out, it kind of leads to the "It doesn't work" side.

every time i think someone is gay its always a feminine man. like this dude who runs a dancewear store downtown, but he actually is gay, i found that out several months after i met him.

I always knew you'd go and get crucified, well go on! See if I care!

I don’t have gaydar, but surprisingly my strait best friend does. She knew I was a lesbian before I came out to her, and whenever she thinks someone is gay she’s usually right.

I have awful Gaydar. My friend who I've known since 6th grade is flamboyantly gay, but it took me over 5 years to figure it out, and I wasn't even sure about my guess until he came out to me.
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I'm crazy for crying and I'm crazy for trying and I'm crazy for loving you.
-Patsy Cline

This kinda gets me, it was better when I was in the closet. It used to be great, now it's completely down the toilet.

"Where the hell is Nebraska?!"

You might never find out that you are useful for all the right reasons - and not all those stupid things that people tell you you're useful for. --Angelina Jolie

oh how it sucks to have ABSOLUTLY no gaydar

"to be great is to be misunderstood"
-Emerson

I guess my gayger-counter is okay, but i don't really have the chance to use it.